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Ghosting: What to do if the other is not reporting?


From today to tomorrow, the contact breaks off? This is how you should behave


Everything went perfectly with him. The first weeks and months have developed well and you have hoped more. But suddenly he does not react anymore and responds only very delayed or not at all to your calls or messages. 
The so-called "ghosting", that is, the sudden disappearance of the picture, dominate some men (and women!) To perfection. This should be done if you are affected by ghosting:

1. Stay strong

Ghosting is so painful because it usually comes out of the blue. Perhaps you have already forged plans for the future and figured out in the most beautiful colors how it could become with him.Do not focus on these ideas, but on who you are and what you have achieved so far. Do not ask yourself if you have done something wrong. This only gnaws at your self-confidence and makes you unattractive.

2. Make yourself scarce

Do not run after him. Hardly anything is less sexy than this behavior. Instead, make sure that he has a chance to miss you. Stop typing and do not call. Also in the social networks you should not find a connection to it. Men prefer to hunt than they are hunted. If you hang on to his skirt, he has no chance. Just keep in mind that you will not be able to withdraw completely, so that it comes to the idea that it does not make any sense with you anyway.

3. Live your life further

You are particularly attractive when you live your life and are obviously happy. Drive alone over the weekend or even longer away, meet friends and family and enjoy the time with the people who are really important to you and will always be important. Easily share your impressions on Facebook or Instagram or change your profile photo into a picture of your company. He can still see that you have fun without him.

4. Take control

Should he report back to you and suggest a meeting or conversation, you should not promise immediately. Give him a few days later to see if it works out. Once you then speak or see yourself, finish the conversation or meeting. So give him the feeling that in your life there are plenty of other important things besides him.

5. Be clear that he is not worth it

If he does not follow you after all these measures, it is sad, but not to deny that he is simply not the right one for you.Do not waste any more time and do not waste any thought on him. The faster you get it out of your head, the faster you are open to a new acquaintance who is serious about you.

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